Wilson Proms

On a spring weekends, my friends and I decided to visit Squeaky Beach in Wilson Prom, which is located 3-4 hours away from CBD. The view was amazing, but the weather, somehow ruined the beauty in it. Eternally blessed to be at a post-card look scenery, where mother nature goes so well with the combination of blue skies and ocean blue sea waters.

" Appreciate the beauty in everything" 

How to remove toxic people in life?

Recently, I have a feeling that some people will only bring disappointment and make me feel emotional as I am not supposed to be.  This is not a definition of a true friendship, it is suppose to bring out the best of you, make you feel happy when you are with someone. I tried to change his/her's perspective,  but it does not seem to work. Hence, I decided to google on how to move on from being friends with toxic people.
I found some of them are really useful.
1. Don't expect them to change. 

 It is true on the fact that you can’t force toxic people to change. They may change for a short period of time, and change to the one they used to be, it is a hopeless point to request true changes from toxic people.

"Toxic people are not motivated by what’s good for them or for their relationship with you—they’re motivated by their own complex problems and needs. When you give up the desire to change them, it’s much easier to let them go."

2. Establish and maintain boundaries. 

Toxic people will always make you to compromise more and more, to agree with them, and to please them. This is exhausting, as you might compromise for once, but not forever, 

Give some serious thought to what you will tolerate and what you won’t, is it reasonable for you to tolerate all of his/her temper, mood-swing.  When you get a sense that something’s not right in your interactions with someone, run through your mental boundary checklist and enforce these boundaries deliberately and rigidly.

3. Understand what you deserve. 

Toxic people will never deserve a good person like you who are always there for them. Some of them might act childish, and ya, this shows that you deserve someone that are in the same mentality as you. An obvious characteristics on toxic people, is that they don't really have much friends in life, like what a normal people will do. Hence, be alert with people you make friends with. Don't be happy and feel extra special if you are the only friend of his/her, as you might not know your tolerance level toward his/her. 

4. Surround yourself with healthy relationship. 

Finally, removing toxic people from your life can be hurt and painful, as you may deeply care for some of these people in spite of how difficult it is to have them in your life.

"To maintain your resilience and cope with any sadness, stay in close contact with friends who make you feel safe, cherished and happy. These are the people who will model healthy friendships and relationships, reminding you exactly why you are choosing to sever toxic ones."

First post about my study life in Melbourne

Hey, all <3

Had abandoned this blog for almost 2 years and more. And, I am doing good right now, studying in the country that i've been longing for since young. This 8 months are full of ups and downs. The closest person of mine, my grandma had left us to a better and happier place.  I had been going on road trip and travelling in Australia more than I ever be for just a few months time. I learnt to deal with problems on myself (etc: caught the wrong bus/tram, left my key no where,....), meeting friends from different environment, dealing with housemate who is inconsiderate.

In this few months time, I had grew up to the person who is more independent then I were previously.  

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hi! Happy chor 14! Back to my blog after years of not blogging! From my previous post of just starting A- Levels, I am so proud and glad to say that I am halfway done for my A- LEVELS. Few months back, I completed my AS examination. Three more months later, I'm gonna start my last exam for A-LEVELS, A2. Tbh, I personally feel that the toughest part of a -levels is MATHS, Couldn't really imagine what if I'm a double maths student. As for now, I am busying with finals and hope that i can get into my dream uni for an undergraduate course. Praying that everything go on smooth.  Just feel like blogging again and to jot down things that happen throughout my whole A- levels journey spending in KTJ.

Late night thoughts

Care Less.Am so emotional for this few days, happy that I had finally done with my trials. But again,this is just trials, actual papers gonna fall on May. WORK HARD.

Care too much for a person. I am those kind of person that will get sad and hurt because of those petty petty stuff. Like those was just a small stuff. Why should I ever care? WHY? YAY. I have truly no idea too. Maybe it is because this person means a lot to me. Probably? I  knew it was bad to care that much. But, you can't control your emotion what. Thanks for always guiding me when i feel that I'm loss either in life or in studies. Your words will always be the reason why I'm still surviving. Apart that families, friends are like the most important one in my life. They are like the most supportive one to me whenever i feel that I have lost my way and when Im stress with my works. Too cheesy. But who cares? hahaha. Promised the bestie, to CARE LESS.

Btw, A-levels is really "not that easy". But then, as what my dad said, hard work and perseverance lead you to the right path. Ciao. off to do some sets of module papers. Cheers

The super duper lazy blogger is back. Just started uni for a month. And believe it is fun and stress. but the stress level is even more bigger than the fun level. Nawhhhhhhhhhhhh. It's okay as long as it is still fun.

I'm Officially 16

Oh yeahhhhhhh! I'm officially 16 right now! Not to say im young but not too old right? xD hahahaha. Quite happy to have my friends and my bestie to celebrate such a happy day with me. Thanks my friends,classmates and family for all of the wishes. Okayyy! thanks to those who had wished me on instagram and facebook. Appreciate all of your wishes. Although nothing special had really happen on Monday as the bestie didnt came to school on 1/7, thanks my friends in C1C or my friends who had meet me in canteen by wishing me. I promise to achive the best things in life. It is actually a sweet 16 for me, a special birthday for me. Two day before my birthday, I got my report card. And before taking it, i told myself not to have too big expectation. Quite worry on the day before taking result. Ohhhhhhh! Thanks god i took no 1 again! whatabigsurprise for me. It's all out of my expectation. And i had finally broke my own record, my average mark had finally reach 80 something. Kinda happy as i seldom get 80 something but 79 something on sometimes. What a best birthday gift ever.
Before the day i took my report card, Aubrey decided to have a birthday celebration with me at Delifrance. We went to have our luch with my mama at Old Town. Quite thirsty after the lunch. Aubrey and I went to have some shopping in Popular. And lastly we went to Delifrance. So, now let's the picture to do some talking/

After taking our result, I have a little birthday celebration with the crazy gang at blackball. We walk by there and so happy that Eunice can join us. We chit chat while we are walking to there. Although it is far away from our school, it is just so near for us as Happy moments will always past quickly. Chit chat, talk loudly, laugh crazily like nobody bussiness. After reaching there, they just went to order. And went we ate until halfway, Sharah,Eunice and Jing tong had lost. hahahahah. Actually i knew what they are doing,but just not to say it out. Anyway,thanks my babiessss for everything you guys had done to me. Appreciate it. Thought to cut the cake and the boys keep on ask me to "pick up" the candles on the cake and ohmygod my faceeeeeeeeeeeeee. Full with cream already. Unexpected, i been prank by them for at least twice. Thanks for the super awesome "surprise" yea! hahahhahaha. Im kinda happy and lucky to meet you guys in life. Not big difference as you guys are still celebrating my birthday with me on this year. We are still the same, nothing can really break us apart. Thanks you guys for all the surprises you had brought to me for all the day. All the best yea! ;)

Last but not least, a warm birthday celebration with my precious and beloved family. Thanks daddy for the sweet treat, Japanese dinner at Rakuzen. Went there with my aunt too. Ohana means FAMILY. Family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. Quote from Lilo and Stitch.Yeahhh. Im officially 16 now. I gonna appreciate every moments in life and spend most of my time with those I love. Thanks god that i had met family I love the most, friends that willing to be crazy with me and bestie that know me more then the way i know myself. My 16th teenage life is complete because i have you guysssss.

Birthday cake of the year.

Ice cream cake from Iscream. Thanks for the custom make floral cake, daddy and mummy.

Sunday night 230612

Arghhhhhhh. The haze is getting worse from day by day. I can even smell the unpleasant smell when im inside the house. I cant really imagine how my school day will be on tomorrow. Will be any assembly on tomorrow? Please I dont hope that there will be any assembly on tomorrow but I also dont hope that i will be in the class on tomorrow morning. It's kinda boring to be in the class for the first and second period without having any things to do. Although our class teacher will let us viewing some video, i will also feel kinda boring. hahaaaaahaa. It is not a well-spend Sunday for me on today. I am a good girl on this Sunday as I stayed at home for the whole day, doing uec additional maths revision, do and do and do. And finally mum and dad decide to bring me out as the haze is being a bit better in the evening, we went to have our Mc Donald as our tea time and bonding session. My family will always be like my friends. Thanks for pampering me like a princess. They knew i am bored staying at home,so they decide to bring me out. I love you guys so much. Although sometimes im in a bad mood, my beloved friends and families will always be there for me. Cheering me up. Sincerly, im happy to have you guys. I will try my best to ignore those who are not important my life and prevent them from hurting me. Thanks my family and friends who will always protect me from all those being hurt by haters. And 8 more days to go. hahahaaaaa. Goodnight and sweetdream

Walkathon 2013. CHHS

Hello,用华语写部落客了。Finally,自己决定了准时的更新每个星期所发生的事，应该可以说是总结每个礼拜所发生的事。今天就写关于上个星期六学校所举办的百年从头越万人义跑。为了避免迟到，我很早便抵达学校。到达学校后，我与朋友们在班上等待听从老师的吩咐。大约7时，我们便开始列队在班外。校长，董事长，嘉宾致词后，训育老师开始吩咐我们关于义跑时，所需注意得重要事项。我们于八时早上便开始“走路”了。一路上，我们有说有笑。老师也在沿途上为我们拍了许多充满回忆的照片。当我们抵达终点时，时间已是10时多，校方也为我们准备了许多精彩的节目。ASTRO本地圈艺人为我们带来一连串的活动。那天，那个时候，整个礼堂都成了超HIGH的。尖叫声，欢呼声此起彼落。大约于中午十二时，我们便带着愉快轻松的心情打道回府。
虽然这次的义跑没能与嘉恩一起走，但庆幸的是还与许多朋友一起走。我们班真的比其他班级来得疯狂，平凡起来有点特别。时间犹如不停奔驰的马，今年的义跑也就这样快得结束了。

okay!That's all for today! And yeah,Im proud to say that i am from a chinese independent school.  my awesome school is gonna celebrate it 100th birthday so soon. To all my love ones, do take care of yourself as the haze is getting more and more worse. And attention please! girls and boys, Please not to go out in the middle of night, take good care of yourself as you will always be the precious one of your family and friends. Cheers!

 

 

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hello, it is time to blog now! Havent finish editing my vacation photos and so I am not going to update it on today.Time flies.... Mid-term exam had end and this can also consider as a New school life. Our teacher had also return back all of the exam papers to us. I do feel bad and terrible after receiving my UEC add Maths paper. The worst result i had ever score in my exam. Although it is not too bad for someone, it was just too terrible for me. Seriously, everyone of us fsiled in this paper. I do not really know what is the main reason why they had failed in this paper? But i do know that the main reason i failed in this paper is due to the teacher and maybe because i do not prepare well for this paper. Not the fault that teacher didnt teach us but just the teacher who set the paper was way too bad. Lots of the questions contains mistakes and she didnt inform us earlier. Anyway, lets bygone be bygone. I will try my best to score a better marks in this paper. And i sincerly hope that teacher will always double check the questions before we, the students are gonna sit for the exam. Luckily, the result wasnt that bad like what i had imagined. Phewwwwwwww, this is what student's life after exam....okay! that's all for today! Happy Papa day. Gonna sign off now and go for Fathers Day celebration. Love you forever daddyyyyyy Soong . <3